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When seeking cooperation, always look for the wealthy, because their resources allow them to generate wealth harmoniously. To achieve results, you should look for the poor, because they need money, so their execution ability is particularly strong.

The only way to become stronger is to infinitely approach your bottleneck. I am increasingly certain of one thing: when a person truly starts to get stronger, it is not by becoming more ruthless, more determined, or more tense, but by being willing to infinitely approach their own bottleneck. Many people mistakenly think that high energy is a state of excitement, but I later realized that truly stable and sustainable high energy must have a foundation of calmness, clarity, and not being pulled in different directions. In the context of spiritual awakening, there is a phrase I really like: “I l

In contemporary China, society systematically privatizes, familializes, and ultimately feminizes the risks and cognitive responsibilities that should be borne by public institutions and public rationality. Mothers are thus pushed to become the final buffer. The reason why true logic and psychology cannot be widely understood is that they reveal structures, dismantle authority, and hold systems accountable; therefore, only fragmented knowledge and emotional comfort that are depoliticized and de-causalized remain. When social support systems withdraw, all failures are compressed into "original f

Show your beauty, and you must have the ability to avoid lowly lechers; display your wealth, and you must have the ability to prevent greedy and jealous people from harming you; reveal your sincerity, and you have the ability to discern whether a person is good or evil; whatever you reveal, you must have the ability to avoid the backlash it may bring. Remember, there are no surprises without reason, and no disasters without cause.

The person you admire also reflects the qualities and strengths within yourself. If you think Wang Yangming is someone you admire, then write down Wang Yangming's virtues. In the process of writing about Wang Yangming's strengths, you will find that it contains your own influence. Use others as a mirror, and yourself as a measure. Bring your admiration for others back to yourself, rediscover your positive qualities, and take action. You may achieve success just like the person you admire.

There is a mysterious group in the world. Whoever they support, that person falls. Whoever they support, that person has bad luck. Whoever they oppose, that person prospers. Whoever they oppose, that person advances.

You seek help from God because you believe in God. When God does not respond, it is because God believes in you. Therefore, God is you, and you are God. Asking others is less effective than asking yourself.

Raising children actually starts with educating yourself first. Have you done these? First, emotional management: how we handle anger, anxiety, and frustration, children will silently imitate. Second, consistency in words and actions: whether we practice what we preach, which is more powerful than just lecturing. Third, the attitude of learning and reflection: whether we are willing to admit mistakes and continue learning, which is the best example. Fourth, respect for others: how we treat partners, parents, and strangers will become the template for children to understand "relationships." Ins

When you already know the ending, the process becomes important. When you don't know the ending, the ending is most important. When you don't care about the ending, the present moment is most important.

Judging whether your parents love you is not actually complicated; a preliminary judgment can be made with three points. The first point: when talking about "money" with your parents, do you feel fear or guilt? When you were young and in school, the school asked for textbook fees or uniform fees; or when you wanted a small item costing a few yuan or a dozen yuan, did you always need to prepare yourself mentally for a long time and muster up a lot of courage to speak up? As soon as money is mentioned, you feel uneasy, scared, or guilty. And most of these expenses are actually within your parent

You have a cup in front of you. When you drink water, it becomes a water cup; when you smoke, it becomes an ashtray; when you arrange flowers, it becomes a vase; the cup itself is actually nothing—this is called emptiness; what you use it for is what it truly is—this is called skillful means. If you insist that it must be a cup, this is called attachment to form. For this reason, you argue and debate with others, which is called ego clinging. As a result, your arguing leads to emotions and insults, which is called affliction. Finally, you develop aversion towards this person, which is called p

In the universe, the shortest path between two points is not a straight line but a folded one, so the future is the present.

People pursue luck, generally in three stages: waiting for luck, seeking luck, and becoming luck. The gift of fate has long been priced; it will only precisely match those whose words, actions, abilities, and frequencies are in harmony with it. This is not metaphysics, but causality.

Not being close to your child means you haven't raised them properly. If you haven't invested energy and effort into your child, why would they be close to you? Emotions are cultivated, not created by inputting negative feelings. So, how do you judge if a child has been well-raised? If a child exhibits the following six characteristics, it indicates a solid internal foundation. Even if they leave the family in the future, they will have strong adaptability and resilience.
First, able to eat and sleep: a sense of security is sufficient. Eating with focus, sleeping relaxedly. This shows they are

If you are good at creating emotions, you can handle 80% of people.
If you are good at reasoning, you can handle 95% of people.
If you are good at storytelling, you can handle 99% of people.
If you understand human nature, you can almost handle everyone.

What is the root cause of suffering? This is a very difficult piece of common sense to understand. The hardest thing to see in life is not external objects, but oneself. So how can we see ourselves? Only when we bump into something and bounce back can we feel ourselves through feedback, and only then can we see ourselves. Therefore, the best way to see oneself is to treat others as mirrors to reflect our inner selves. Using others as mirrors helps us understand our gains and losses. All the greed, anger, ignorance, arrogance, and doubt we see are projections of our inner mind. Our rejection an

Smart parents will try to make their children feel that some good changes and positive results are brought about by their own decisions, rather than taking credit when they see some progress. Tell the child, "Look, I was right, wasn't I? See, I said this back then." No matter how old a person is, a very important need is autonomy. Children are the same; if you don't let them believe in themselves, they will never grow up. A parent's wisdom should be reflected in how to make the child confident, not in making the child feel that the parent is always right. When a child does well, especially enc

The more places you go, the more you can gradually overcome regional biases. The more you see, the more you can gradually overcome identity biases. The more you know, the more you can gradually overcome cognitive biases.

Low-level people cannot love you, nor can they give love. Love is something only the exceptional possess, because love is a form of power, a form of giving, a form of compassion, a form of wisdom, and an ongoing ability to produce. Therefore, the best people in the world are not those who wait, but those who cultivate. Love given will be returned, and blessings that go out will come back!

Why are the older generations more resilient, while today's young people are more prone to depression? What you don't know is that a certain pesticide was consumed quite badly by the resilient older generation. When I was young, I often heard that someone who was doing well suddenly went crazy, or someone who was doing well suddenly jumped into the river. It's just that now depression is taken seriously; in the past, it was called having a hard time getting over something.