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Raising children actually starts with educating yourself first. Have you done these? First, emotional management: how we handle anger, anxiety, and frustration, children will silently imitate. Second, consistency in words and actions: whether we practice what we preach, which is more powerful than just lecturing. Third, the attitude of learning and reflection: whether we are willing to admit mistakes and continue learning, which is the best example. Fourth, respect for others: how we treat partners, parents, and strangers will become the template for children to understand "relationships." Ins

When you already know the ending, the process becomes important. When you don't know the ending, the ending is most important. When you don't care about the ending, the present moment is most important.

Judging whether your parents love you is not actually complicated; a preliminary judgment can be made with three points. The first point: when talking about "money" with your parents, do you feel fear or guilt? When you were young and in school, the school asked for textbook fees or uniform fees; or when you wanted a small item costing a few yuan or a dozen yuan, did you always need to prepare yourself mentally for a long time and muster up a lot of courage to speak up? As soon as money is mentioned, you feel uneasy, scared, or guilty. And most of these expenses are actually within your parent

You have a cup in front of you. When you drink water, it becomes a water cup; when you smoke, it becomes an ashtray; when you arrange flowers, it becomes a vase; the cup itself is actually nothing—this is called emptiness; what you use it for is what it truly is—this is called skillful means. If you insist that it must be a cup, this is called attachment to form. For this reason, you argue and debate with others, which is called ego clinging. As a result, your arguing leads to emotions and insults, which is called affliction. Finally, you develop aversion towards this person, which is called p

In the universe, the shortest path between two points is not a straight line but a folded one, so the future is the present.

People pursue luck, generally in three stages: waiting for luck, seeking luck, and becoming luck. The gift of fate has long been priced; it will only precisely match those whose words, actions, abilities, and frequencies are in harmony with it. This is not metaphysics, but causality.

Not being close to your child means you haven't raised them properly. If you haven't invested energy and effort into your child, why would they be close to you? Emotions are cultivated, not created by inputting negative feelings. So, how do you judge if a child has been well-raised? If a child exhibits the following six characteristics, it indicates a solid internal foundation. Even if they leave the family in the future, they will have strong adaptability and resilience.
First, able to eat and sleep: a sense of security is sufficient. Eating with focus, sleeping relaxedly. This shows they are

If you are good at creating emotions, you can handle 80% of people.
If you are good at reasoning, you can handle 95% of people.
If you are good at storytelling, you can handle 99% of people.
If you understand human nature, you can almost handle everyone.

What is the root cause of suffering? This is a very difficult piece of common sense to understand. The hardest thing to see in life is not external objects, but oneself. So how can we see ourselves? Only when we bump into something and bounce back can we feel ourselves through feedback, and only then can we see ourselves. Therefore, the best way to see oneself is to treat others as mirrors to reflect our inner selves. Using others as mirrors helps us understand our gains and losses. All the greed, anger, ignorance, arrogance, and doubt we see are projections of our inner mind. Our rejection an

Smart parents will try to make their children feel that some good changes and positive results are brought about by their own decisions, rather than taking credit when they see some progress. Tell the child, "Look, I was right, wasn't I? See, I said this back then." No matter how old a person is, a very important need is autonomy. Children are the same; if you don't let them believe in themselves, they will never grow up. A parent's wisdom should be reflected in how to make the child confident, not in making the child feel that the parent is always right. When a child does well, especially enc

The more places you go, the more you can gradually overcome regional biases. The more you see, the more you can gradually overcome identity biases. The more you know, the more you can gradually overcome cognitive biases.

Low-level people cannot love you, nor can they give love. Love is something only the exceptional possess, because love is a form of power, a form of giving, a form of compassion, a form of wisdom, and an ongoing ability to produce. Therefore, the best people in the world are not those who wait, but those who cultivate. Love given will be returned, and blessings that go out will come back!

Why are the older generations more resilient, while today's young people are more prone to depression? What you don't know is that a certain pesticide was consumed quite badly by the resilient older generation. When I was young, I often heard that someone who was doing well suddenly went crazy, or someone who was doing well suddenly jumped into the river. It's just that now depression is taken seriously; in the past, it was called having a hard time getting over something.

There is a type of adolescence issue that almost never triggers conflicts but is the highest risk: kids appear fine. This situation is called inward collapse. The child is quiet, cooperative, not causing trouble; motivation decreases but tasks can still be completed; responses to the future are indifferent. Parents often say: No problem, just a bit lazy. But an important judgment is: if nothing happens during adolescence, it is often not stability but that growth has been suppressed. Adolescence should involve conflicts, self-differentiation, and meaning reconstruction; being overly "calm" is

No matter how others interfere or tease you, you won't react because you know these people have nothing to do with your life and do not nourish your spirit. Sometimes, you can be deaf and blind, as long as you are willing.

Many people believe that success depends on competing with others—competing for resources, opportunities, and recognition. But those who truly succeed often rarely get caught up in this kind of competition. They understand one thing better: don’t focus on people, follow the natural laws. When you put your attention on others, feelings of comparison, jealousy, and anxiety will arise. When emotions become chaotic, your judgment and action will decline, making things increasingly difficult. The truly effective approach is to get your state right. Stop denying yourself from the start, allow yourse

Top Mindsets That Change Lives:
1. Only screen, do not educate.
2. Compassion should have boundaries.
3. Scarcity determines value.
4. Do not interfere with others' karma.
5. Do not make decisions for others.
6. Do not envy others' success.
7. Do not casually pity others.
8. Do not be driven by short-term gains.
9. Never doubt yourself.
10. Never test human nature.
11. Moderate indifference is self-protection.
12. Take care of your emotions first.
13. Be humble and composed.
14. Don't procrastinate; act when you think of it.
15. See through but not reveal everything; keep a calm demeanor.
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The encounter between people is a kind of energy exchange; the type of energy will bring about the corresponding outcomes. If you spend a long time with a gloomy person, you will naturally become insincere. If you are constantly around a stingy person, your days will become increasingly narrow. If you frequently interact with emotionally unpredictable people, your situation will become fragmented and chaotic. If you want wealth and prosperity, you need to be close to people with stable energy fields.

When relationships lose equality, social interactions shift from connection to pressure. Social anxiety is often misunderstood as timidity or introversion, but from the perspectives of social and developmental psychology, it more commonly stems from persistent status anxiety: people are not truly communicating during interactions but are instead verifying whether they are in a lower position, paying a psychological cost for it. An increasing number of adults, especially young people, dislike socializing and prefer solitude because their experiences suggest that social interactions are not abou

Before giving any advice or guidance to a child, there is actually a "precondition." And this precondition often determines where our words will ultimately lead. The truly effective precondition is that I assume this child is positive, energetic, and genuinely wants to improve. All communication is built on the belief that "he can, he is capable." Because in reality, parents will inevitably face setbacks. We naturally hope our children get better and better, but when emotions are high, tired, or anxious, it's easy to make a judgment about the child in our hearts: "He can't do it," "He has many