What is childhood trauma and stress response? Most of the time, it's because when you were young and talked to your parents, they rarely gave you positive and encouraging feedback. Instead, they often suppress you, deny you, and even transmit various anxieties and negative energies. You were originally very good-tempered, but hearing your parents' words would make you feel irritable, even filled with anger. Don't doubt whether you lack patience or are unfilial; this is a stress response to childhood trauma. As a result, when you hear your parents speak, you feel as if you've been hurt in some way, automatically activating a defense mode to protect yourself. So, you are good, and you should look forward. Don't doubt yourself.