Once you get married, you will face pressures such as childbirth, mortgage and car loans, relationships with in-laws, daily chores, and even risks of infidelity and relationship breakdown. On the other hand, choosing not to marry often only involves considerations like what to eat and drink today, and where to go for fun. Because of this, those who truly want to get married to someone are unstoppable in their pursuit, because in their hearts, that person is worth it; whereas if there is even a hint of hesitation, there's no need for others to persuade them, as they have already started to retreat on their own.