Eight Moments When Kids Feel Truly Loved: 1. You never compare me to others; you only focus on how much I've improved today compared to yesterday and what my strengths are. 2. When I'm timid or selfish, you don't scold me; instead, you ask what happened and help me find a solution. 3. When I'm afraid of criticism or lying, you don't get angry; you tell me that making mistakes is okay and to face them bravely. 4. When I haven't done something well, you don't call me stupid; instead, you help me start over until I succeed. 5. When I don't say hello, you don't say I'm rude; you just smile and say, waving is fine too. 6. When I throw a tantrum, you don't yell at me; instead, you hug me and ask why I'm upset. 7. When I make mistakes in front of others, you don't dislike me; you encourage me to get up from where I fell. 8. When I don't want to share, you don't force me; you just tell me that sharing is good but not mandatory.