An ideal partner should be an independent crazy person. How should we understand this statement? It means the person you're looking for can live a rich and happy life even without you. They are not half a person waiting for you to complete them, but an already fully alive existence. Independence is not just about financial self-sufficiency, but also emotional completeness. They have their own passions and pursuits they are crazy about, and a stable core within. They won't project all their emotions onto you, won't use love to coerce you, and won't say they can't live without you. So why would they choose you? It's simple, not because they need you, but because they want to be with you. Not because you fill their void, but because your presence adds color and joy to their already complete world. Such a relationship has no humble dependence, no suffocating bondage, but two free souls running on their own life tracks, yet still choosing to stand side by side and watch the same scenery. Love is no longer a life-saving straw in the snow, but a mutual illumination that adds beauty to each other.