True experts always pre-judge in advance:

1. Before someone approaches you, first predict their purpose for reaching out.
2. When someone takes the initiative to get close, first predict what they want to gain.
3. When someone suddenly shows friendliness, first predict the underlying motive.
4. Before someone speaks, first predict their current emotional state.
5. Before someone expresses themselves, first predict their stance.
6. Before someone communicates, first predict their true needs.
7. When someone is silent, first predict their concerns.
8. Before someone acts, first predict their next move.
9. When someone's attitude changes, first predict the reason behind it.
10. Before someone responds, first predict the bottom line they can accept.
11. Before someone prepares to refuse, first predict what they are worried about.
12. Before discussing cooperation, first predict their value orientation.