Don't spend a lifetime with your favorite person. When you were young, you loved eating watermelon, but as an adult, it tastes just okay. When you were young, bananas tasted just okay, and as an adult, they still taste just okay. When you were young, you didn't eat apples often, and as an adult, they taste even more just okay. If fruit had consciousness, watermelon would be heartbroken. Spend a lifetime with someone you just generally like to have a proper ending from start to finish.