Why are guys not taking the initiative anymore?

I came across this a few days ago.
A woman on a dating app complained: The guy rode over on an electric bike, ordered a grilled fish through group buying, and ended up taking it home.
Location: Beijing.
In a place like Beijing, cars aren’t necessarily more convenient than electric bikes,
And most likely, the guy lives near a restaurant.
The key point is, you didn’t pay a dime, and he paid for your meal,
And in the end, you still complain about wasting food?