Couples or spouses, regardless of gender, if either party consistently gives the other the cold shoulder, looks down on them, or suppresses them, both are personality-disabled individuals. Especially the one being suppressed is even more personality-disabled.

A normal person with independent personality cannot accept such a situation for long.

The most important thing when choosing a partner is whether they have the habit of studying/reading. Even if they read two books a year, it's fine. Some people go years or even ten years without reading a single book. How can such a person possibly reason logically?

Isn't it normal for such people to be unreasonable, extremely self-centered, selfish, impulsive, irritable, emotionally unstable, and speak like they're vomiting?