You say you like someone else's wife, it sounds quite inappropriate, doesn't it?

But if it were put another way, the person you like became someone else's wife, it would suddenly seem particularly affectionate.

A female college student studies during the day and works at a KTV at night, and others may think she is very depraved.

But you said she works at the KTV at night and insists on studying during the day, so others would think she is very hardworking.

Repeatedly fighting and failing will make one appear incompetent. Repeatedly failing and fighting will make one appear courageous.

The situation is still the same, but if you put it another way, it's different.