One of the essential courses for striking up conversations: "Being Handsome is a Vibe"

A friend DM’d me asking:

How can I increase my attractiveness?

Women, you see, go by feelings—and feelings are the hardest to define and quantify. But whatever kind of charisma you give off, that’s the kind of attention you’ll attract.

Wang Sicong is attractive because of his hard power, Jackson Wang is attractive because of his sexual energy, Takeshi Kaneshiro is attractive because of his natural looks.

You’re also attractive, but you might not realize it or it’s being overshadowed.

Putting aside looks and the thickness of your wallet,

There are only three things for men in terms of “aesthetic medicine”: hairstyle, outfit, and conversation.

In the information age, aesthetic fatigue has basically boxed in most girls’ sense of beauty. That’s why so many Douyin male influencers look pretty much the same. It’s both a result of market selection and a reflection of most girls’ preferences.

Find a hairstyle that truly matches your own style, put a bit of effort into your wardrobe—your fashion sense is developed based on your personal taste, and it's a basic reflection of a guy’s characteristics.

Then, when you interact with others, you’ll naturally be way more confident, right?