Do you know the difference between dad and mom? In some Chinese families, fathers will say to their children, when you grow up, you must be filial to your mother, and it is not easy for your mother to raise you with hard work. But what would Mom say? When you grow up, don't look for a man who is both incompetent and useless like your father. If Dad runs out of money, Mom may leave, but what about Mom running out of money? Dad will never do it, only with dad can there be a home. This is how men build nests to attract phoenixes, while women choose trees to perch. The father's hard work outside cannot be seen, but the father's shortcomings will be seen at a glance, because the mother will tell the children all the shortcomings of the father without reservation, and even, it will be infinitely magnified, so as to belittle the father's image among the children, so as to raise his own value. Even if the child makes a mistake, when they scold the child, they can bring their father, and they can have any children with their father, and they all learn from your father