The Law of Attraction

Whether it's dating or hooking up,

The law of attraction between men and women remains constant.

A friend DM'ed me asking if there’s a way that doesn’t rely on status or money.

There is, bro.

I have a friend who is 33, just got married. Before 2024, he was very skinny—about 175cm but less than 110 pounds. He once proposed to his girlfriend of over two years in a major mall in a second-tier city and got rejected.

How did he change?

His old social media: work stuff, random jokes, no selfies, messy candid photos.

Now his social media: fitness, travel, afternoon tea, and casual displays of his cooking skills.

Most people are just ordinary like you and me, longing for a beautiful, refined life.

If you spice up your ordinary life a bit, you'll get:

A fulfilling life
Topics to chat about
Interactions from people you haven’t talked to in a while on their social media
After that, those interactions can turn into opportunities to chat

Everyone's friend list has someone they want to sleep with but haven’t, and someone they’ve slept with but want to again.