Wang Sicong's instant noodle class: The world won't give you things for free; you have to learn to give yourself what you need.

A variety show recording in 2016 became an unforgettable moment for many. At that time, Wang Sicong, who was serving as the producer of the show “Hello! Goddess,” said a phrase that is still widely circulated today: “No one in this world will give you money because you’re poor; you still have to rely on yourself.” This is not a cold reprimand, but a clear-eyed reminder hidden within care.

The wealthy heir’s home visit scene: from disparity to respect

The production team did not give any prior notice. Wang Sicong arrived at a female guest’s home with the filming crew. What came into view was a world completely different from his usual life—an apartment less than twenty square meters, narrow and dim corridors, an old building without an elevator, peeling walls, old windows, and corners filled with daily clutter.

At that moment, this heir accustomed to luxury saw the real life on the other side of the city with his own eyes. The female guest was overwhelmed and uneasy in front of the sudden visitors, especially Wang Sicong with his commanding presence, standing nervously to the side, even speaking with a trembling voice.

After a brief greeting, mealtime approached. Looking at the simple living space, the guest appeared somewhat helpless, tentatively suggesting, “There’s not much food at home, I’ll cook some instant noodles for everyone?” She turned to open the fridge, but the ingredients inside were even more disheartening—besides basic seasonings, there was a fish covered with small mushrooms.

That embarrassing moment, he chose a different approach

Wang Sicong saw the contents of the fridge and quickly waved to stop her, saying with a mix of helplessness and teasing tone, “Mushrooms growing, bro, this is basically a biohazard.” The atmosphere on site instantly became awkward, and the female guest’s face flushed red.

The host sensed the discomfort and quickly stepped in to ease the mood, encouraging Wang Sicong to show off his cooking skills. Unexpectedly, he frankly revealed his meticulous attitude towards food: “The noodles I eat must be imported, the pot must be imported, even the water used to cook rice is from Fiji.”

At first glance, this sounded like the pretentiousness of a wealthy heir, but there was no trace of contempt. The guest did not back down either, instead replying confidently, “I’ll cook my way, if you don’t want to eat, that’s fine, the host can eat.” She then busily continued with her own preparations.

Wang Sicong didn’t say much more, instead casually finding a small stool and sitting among the piled-up clutter, with no airs or discomfort. He looked around—the peeling walls, the narrow bathroom, the dim lighting—and his gaze was free of disgust, instead showing calmness and reflection.

The heartfelt words behind a bowl of instant noodles

When the female guest brought over a steaming bowl of noodles, everyone thought he wouldn’t pick up chopsticks. But he calmly accepted the bowl and sat on the small stool, savoring this most sincere hospitality, eating with relish. At that moment, he was defending the girl’s dignity through his actions, giving her the greatest respect.

After finishing, Wang Sicong’s expression became serious. He looked at the girl, who appeared both embarrassed and resilient, and slowly said the words that would later be recounted by countless people: “No one in this world will give you money because you’re poor; you still have to rely on yourself.”

He paused briefly before continuing to speak the truth: “I see that your current situation is tough, but that doesn’t mean I will give you special treatment to help you advance. The rules of the competition are right here, and all results depend on your own efforts. This society is inherently cruel.”

The warmth hidden in sharp words

This speech sounds cold and ruthless, but it contains the most genuine clarity. Although Wang Sicong was known for his sharp tongue, he was never a reckless critic. He mocked the simple ingredients on his lips, but in action, he demonstrated respect for others; he didn’t offer cheap sympathy, but was willing to reveal the harsh realities of survival.

You see, he could have sat high above with his noble status, watching everything with indifference; he could have used money and privileges to easily change the girl’s situation. But he chose another way—to speak candidly, giving her the most valuable things: awareness of reality and confidence in independence.

This is true giving. Not monetary charity, not false sympathy, but helping someone see the truth of the world and inspiring her to change her life with her own strength.

A bowl of instant noodles changed perceptions

This home visit shattered many stereotypes about Wang Sicong. He might be flamboyant and capricious, but he possesses rare insight and wisdom; he may be picky and particular, but he would never look down on others because of social status, nor would he break the fairness of rules out of pity.

Compared to hollow comfort and false help, that phrase “rely on yourself” is the most practical encouragement. Ten years later, when people recall this scene, it’s no longer just a variety show moment, but a straightforward commentary on life.

Poverty is not scary; what’s frightening is expecting others’ charity. Difficulties are not scary; what’s frightening is losing the will to be self-reliant. The person who can truly support a person’s desire to live is never the charity from others, but the persistence and effort they give themselves. Perhaps that is the final lesson that bowl of instant noodles taught everyone.