Nine signs that your family of origin has hurt you: you can't control your emotions and have a gentle attitude towards outsiders, but when you are alone or with your children and your other half, you will always be unable to control your emotions and suddenly explode. I don't dare to express my real needs, I often suppress myself, I don't dare to express my true thoughts and needs, and I habitually make compromises. People-pleasing personality, children with such a personality are very sensitive and often worry that they will be hated and disliked, so they will find ways to please their parents in exchange for their parents' approval; Habitually grieve yourself to avoid conflict. Don't feel worthy, others treat you well, you are always at a loss, dare not accept it calmly; If someone gives you a gift, you will definitely double it back. There is always a deep sense of unworthiness. Tear incontinence physique, when you have conflicts or contradictions with others, you often cry uncontrollably, hate yourself for not being angry, but you just can't help it, and often feel aggrieved and sad. Hungry to be recognized, you always work very hard and crave to be recognized